{"id":24087,"date":"2018-11-01T10:00:59","date_gmt":"2018-11-01T10:00:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/thevoiceoflondon.co.uk\/?p=24087"},"modified":"2018-11-01T10:00:59","modified_gmt":"2018-11-01T10:00:59","slug":"the-struggles-of-being-a-man","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/the-struggles-of-being-a-man\/","title":{"rendered":"The struggles of being a man"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>As the discussion about women issues and gender equality grows, we often forget to ask men about their difficulties. <\/b><strong>So, <em>Voice of London<\/em> did just that. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">To celebrate the start of Movember, <em>Voice of London<\/em> decided to grab a microphone and go around the University of Westminster to ask male students about their personal struggles of being a man.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">The conversation started on Twitter earlier this month when Caitlin Moran, <em>The Sunday Times<\/em> columnist, set the challenge to ask men about their struggles. <\/span><\/p>\n<p>https:\/\/twitter.com\/caitlinmoran\/status\/1052887974784983041<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/caitlinmoran\/status\/1052887974784983041\">A flood of replies<\/a> soon followed the question, which led to a Twitter thread that read like a script from a therapy session. Here are some of the most humorous, heart-warming, and at times heartbreaking struggles of being a man in the 21st century.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>https:\/\/soundcloud.com\/user275107849\/the-struggles-of-being-a-man<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">While most of the men talked about serious issues, such as not being able to share mental health issues and being reduced to stereotypes, some of them complained about shaving and being pressured to look in a certain way. However, some said they did not have any struggles.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">According to the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nspa.org.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Mens-Health-Forum-Mind-Your-Language.pdf\">2017 Men\u2019s Health Forum Report:<\/a>\u00a0\u201cMen are generally less likely to open up about their mental health; only 38% of men with anxiety and depression access IAPT services, yet 78% of deaths by suicide are male. 74% of women who have symptoms of depression have talked about it, yet only 53% of men have.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<div id='gallery-1' class='gallery galleryid-24087 gallery-columns-3 gallery-size-full'><dl class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<dt class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/image1-17\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"2268\" height=\"1701\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2018\/10\/image1-1.jpeg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2018\/10\/image1-1.jpeg 2268w, https:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2018\/10\/image1-1-300x225.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2018\/10\/image1-1-1024x768.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2018\/10\/image1-1-768x576.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2018\/10\/image1-1-1536x1152.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2018\/10\/image1-1-2048x1536.jpeg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2268px) 100vw, 2268px\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/dt><\/dl><dl 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https:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2018\/10\/image3-1-1-768x576.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2018\/10\/image3-1-1-1536x1152.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2018\/10\/image3-1-1-2048x1536.jpeg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2560px) 100vw, 2560px\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/dt><\/dl><br style=\"clear: both\" \/><dl class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<dt class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/image2-12\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"2268\" height=\"1701\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2018\/10\/image2-1-1.jpeg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full\" alt=\"\" aria-describedby=\"gallery-1-24095\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2018\/10\/image2-1-1.jpeg 2268w, https:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2018\/10\/image2-1-1-300x225.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2018\/10\/image2-1-1-1024x768.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2018\/10\/image2-1-1-768x576.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2018\/10\/image2-1-1-1536x1152.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2018\/10\/image2-1-1-2048x1536.jpeg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2268px) 100vw, 2268px\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/dt>\n\t\t\t\t<dd class='wp-caption-text gallery-caption' id='gallery-1-24095'>\n\t\t\t\tImage courtesy of No\u00e9mi Martini.\n\t\t\t\t<\/dd><\/dl><dl class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<dt class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/image4-3\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"2268\" height=\"1701\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2018\/10\/image4-1-1.jpeg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2018\/10\/image4-1-1.jpeg 2268w, https:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2018\/10\/image4-1-1-300x225.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2018\/10\/image4-1-1-1024x768.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2018\/10\/image4-1-1-768x576.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2018\/10\/image4-1-1-1536x1152.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2018\/10\/image4-1-1-2048x1536.jpeg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2268px) 100vw, 2268px\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/dt><\/dl><dl class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<dt class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/image5\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"2268\" height=\"1701\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2018\/10\/image5-1.jpeg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2018\/10\/image5-1.jpeg 2268w, https:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2018\/10\/image5-1-300x225.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2018\/10\/image5-1-1024x768.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2018\/10\/image5-1-768x576.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2018\/10\/image5-1-1536x1152.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2018\/10\/image5-1-2048x1536.jpeg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2268px) 100vw, 2268px\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/dt><\/dl><br style=\"clear: both\" \/>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Words, Audio and Photos: No\u00e9mi Martini | Subbing: Taylor Paatalo\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>See also:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/thevoiceoflondon.co.uk\/male-breast-cancer-awareness\/\">Male Breast cancer awareness<\/a><\/p>\n<header class=\"vl-main-header\"><a href=\"http:\/\/thevoiceoflondon.co.uk\/new-mental-health-care-support-in-budget-2018-revealed\/\">New mental health care support in Budget 2018 revealed<\/a><\/header>\n<article id=\"post-23911\" class=\"vl-article-content post-23911 post type-post status-publish format-standard has-post-thumbnail hentry category-health-fitness category-investigations category-nhs category-society category-specials tag-budget-2018 tag-mental-health tag-news tag-nhs tag-support tag-uk\">\n<header class=\"entry-header\">\n<div class=\"posted-on\"><\/div>\n<\/header>\n<\/article>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As the discussion about women issues and gender equality grows, we often forget to ask men about their difficulties. 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