{"id":27954,"date":"2018-12-10T12:30:18","date_gmt":"2018-12-10T12:30:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/thevoiceoflondon.co.uk\/?p=27954"},"modified":"2018-12-10T12:30:18","modified_gmt":"2018-12-10T12:30:18","slug":"thongs-out-for-consent","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/thongs-out-for-consent\/","title":{"rendered":"Thongs Out For Consent"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"truncatedAudioInfo__wrapper\">\n<div class=\"truncatedAudioInfo__content\">\n<div class=\"sc-type-small\">\n<div>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-27956\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2018\/12\/46703900_193723438223030_5945641270733963264_n-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"740\" height=\"555\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong style=\"font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Segoe UI', Roboto, Oxygen-Sans, Ubuntu, Cantarell, 'Helvetica Neue', sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Segoe UI', Roboto, Oxygen-Sans, Ubuntu, Cantarell, 'Helvetica Neue', sans-serif\">More than one year in since the #MeToo movement has emerged and yet, prejudices that lie around sexual victims aren&#8217;t put to rest.\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><strong style=\"font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Segoe UI', Roboto, Oxygen-Sans, Ubuntu, Cantarell, 'Helvetica Neue', sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Segoe UI', Roboto, Oxygen-Sans, Ubuntu, Cantarell, 'Helvetica Neue', sans-serif\">The case in Cork at the beginning of November sparked outrage after a senior defence barrister used an alleged rape victim&#8217;s choice of underwear as consent to sex.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>During the trial, the defence lawyer Elizabeth O&#8217;Connell\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.co.uk\/news\/world-europe-46207304\">told<\/a> the jury: &#8220;You have to look at the way she was dressed. She was wearing a thong with a lace front.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>It was enough for the statement to cause consternation, increase media attention, and women to take to the streets carrying lingerie tied to placards as a sign that clothes do not mean consent.<\/p>\n<p>The hashtags #IBelieveHer and #ThisIsNotConsent have quickly erupted on social media, thousands posting pictures of their underwear on Twitter which led to protests across Ireland including Cork, Dublin and Belfast.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-width=\"500\" data-dnt=\"true\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">Can shops start to advertise &quot;Rape&quot; and &quot;Non rape&quot; underwear please? <br \/>I need to know what I&#39;m signing up for when I pick up some underwear.<br \/>Wouldn&#39;t want to contribute to a man&#39;s right to rape me now, would I? <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/ThisIsNotConsent?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#ThisIsNotConsent<\/a> <br \/>I don&#39;t want to be a woman in this country.<\/p>\n<p>&mdash; L (@Gandalfbbz) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/Gandalfbbz\/status\/1063347838921396224?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">November 16, 2018<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>https:\/\/twitter.com\/JordanRoccesano\/status\/1063491174164504580<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-width=\"500\" data-dnt=\"true\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">Bodily integrity is key to achieving gender equality but yet 1\/20 women in the EU have been raped \ud83d\udce2 Consent education, ending judicial victim blaming &amp; social rape myths is part of how we do this \ud83d\udc4a <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/ThisIsNotConsent?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#ThisIsNotConsent<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/IBelieveHer?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#IBelieveHer<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/HearMeToo?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#HearMeToo<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/EndVAWG?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#EndVAWG<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/stopviolencesfaitesauxfemmes?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#stopviolencesfaitesauxfemmes<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/4c7rcezx6f\">pic.twitter.com\/4c7rcezx6f<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&mdash; Young Feminist Europe (@YoungFeministEU) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/YoungFeministEU\/status\/1066802138603503624?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">November 25, 2018<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>https:\/\/twitter.com\/bryonystreets\/status\/1065966759390384128<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-width=\"500\" data-dnt=\"true\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">Dagny doesn&#39;t seem that impressed with <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/ThongsOut?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#ThongsOut<\/a> for <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/ThisIsNotConsent?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#ThisIsNotConsent<\/a>, which is weird cos this pussy always makes it very clear when she wants to be touched&#8230; <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/Kd5H14KlOT\">pic.twitter.com\/Kd5H14KlOT<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&mdash; Jenet Le Lacheur (@JenetLeLacheur) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/JenetLeLacheur\/status\/1067013002300481536?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">November 26, 2018<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<h3>Thongs Out to show that NO means NO<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Segoe UI', Roboto, Oxygen-Sans, Ubuntu, Cantarell, 'Helvetica Neue', sans-serif\">In an interview for the Voice of London, Natalie Durkin &#8211; actress, radio producer and presenter at Women\u2019s Radio Station, marketing manager at the Actors\u2019 Temple and founder of the Thongs Out campaign &#8211; talks about what it takes to advocate for the cause you believe in, how to embrace failure and turn it into success and the role of media nowadays.<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;Thongs Out is for everyone to get involved in a simple way: tie a thong, loudly and proudly to your handbag, briefcase or bicycle. Take it to your office, meeting, or while on public transport so you can help change how we protect rape victims. &#8220;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Thongs Out to show that NO means NO by Teodora Agarici\" width=\"500\" height=\"400\" scrolling=\"no\" frameborder=\"no\" src=\"https:\/\/w.soundcloud.com\/player\/?visual=true&#038;url=https%3A%2F%2Fapi.soundcloud.com%2Ftracks%2F542252598&#038;show_artwork=true&#038;maxheight=750&#038;maxwidth=500\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-27957 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2018\/12\/46860460_711488229228997_2090391601217011712_n-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"527\" height=\"703\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><\/h3>\n<h3><strong>How bad is the situation in the UK?<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Voice of London had a look at the statistics related to sexual offences in the past year released by the Office for National Statistics in collaboration with the Crime Survey for England and Wales.<\/p>\n<p>Below some of the highlights:<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-27959\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/64\/2018\/12\/Sexual-Offences.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"574\" height=\"1435\" \/><\/p>\n<h3>Where can I get help?<\/h3>\n<p>Here are a few non-profit organisations that provide a wide range of services from one to one counselling, support groups and workshops to non-stop free telephone helplines ready to access:<\/p>\n<p>[googlemaps https:\/\/www.google.com\/maps\/d\/u\/0\/embed?mid=1-kbQ_R9Ec1IQ7W90g0bMMG6XO-9XAGqt&amp;w=640&amp;h=480]<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.samaritans.org\/how-we-can-help-you\/contact-us?gclid=EAIaIQobChMI7ramuLLv3gIVxhXTCh1Sxw8sEAAYASAAEgLA4_D_BwE\">The Samaritans<\/a> &#8211; helplines available 24\/7;<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/rapecrisis.org.uk\/centreslist.php?area=london\">Rape Crisis England and Wales<\/a> &#8211; multiple branches in London;<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.intothelight.org.uk\/counselling\/\">Into the Light<\/a> &#8211; network that offers counselling to survivors of childhood sexual abuse;<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.mosac.org.uk\/\">MOSAC<\/a> &#8211; support non-abusing parents and carers of sexually abused children;<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.survivorsuk.org\/contact-us\/\">Survivors UK<\/a> &#8211; counselling and helpline services dedicated to men who have experienced rape and sexual abuse.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Words, pictures, infographic, map and audio: Teodora Agarici | Subbing: Maria Campuzano<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>More than one year in since the #MeToo movement has emerged and yet, prejudices that lie around sexual victims aren&#8217;t put to rest.\u00a0The case in Cork at the beginning of November sparked outrage after a&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":476,"featured_media":27956,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[75,100,103,115],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27954","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-investigations","category-podcasts","category-radio","category-specials"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27954","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/476"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=27954"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27954\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/27956"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=27954"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=27954"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.westminster.ac.uk\/thevoiceoflondon\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=27954"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}